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There are three
separate parts to smoking addiction. Two of the parts are mental/emotional, and
one part is physical.
Part A:
YOU SMOKE FOR RELAXATION AND PLEASURE.
When you were a little baby and you became
upset, your mother would put a pacifier into your mouth to distract you from
that upset. You would get distracted, become more peaceful, and often fall
asleep. That scenario was repeated thousands of times so that your unconscious
mind was programmed: When something goes into your mouth, you get relaxation
and pleasure from it.
Now that you are an adult, if you feel anxious or tense, you crave
something in your mouth for relaxation and pleasure – a smoke!
Part B:
SMOKING IS A CONDITIONED RESPONSE.
Remember
Pavlov? He rang a bell every time that he fed his dogs. After a few
repetitions, he could just ring the bell, and the dogs would salivate.
When you associate smoking a cigarette with any other activity,
the other activity will trigger cravings for a cigarette and a feeling of
urgency to light up a cigarette. This
is called a conditioned response.
For example: If you light up a cigarette when you watch a movie,
you will automatically get an urge to smoke a cigarette each time you go to the
movies. If you light up when you drive your car, you will automatically get an
urge to light up a cigarette each time you drive your car. If you smoke a cigarette
when you see someone else smoking, you will automatically get an urge to smoke
a cigarette each time you see someone else smoking
Here is
exactly how this conditioned response gets programmed into your unconscious: If
a person smokes a cigarette and simultaneously drinks a cup of coffee, the mind
takes a snapshot of the cigarette in the hand, and links it to the cup of
coffee. Thereafter, every time the person sees a cup of coffee, the unconscious
fills in the missing part of the picture. It flashes an image of a cigarette,
and the smoker gets a craving for a cigarette.
You may
be unaware of the mental movie of the cigarette, because it may only be at the
unconscious level of mind. Just as you are not consciously aware of what you
are seeing through your peripheral vision until someone or something draws your
attention to it. But the image is there, creating a craving for a cigarette.
Part C:
THERE IS A PHYSICAL ADDICTION TO NICOTINE, BUT . . .
After
having worked with several thousand smokers, I can guarantee you that the
physical addiction is the weakest part of the habit. In fact, I believe that it
is only ten percent of the addiction to cigarettes. I believe that 90%
of the habit is the mental and emotional parts! (Parts A and B).
HERE IS WHAT THIS MEANS TO A SMOKER WHO
WANTS TO QUIT.
What this means is that
as soon as you eliminate the feeling of tension that compels you to put
cigarettes into your mouth for relaxation and pleasure (Part A) . . . and {if
you can extinguish the conditioned response of feeling a craving for cigarettes
when having a cup of coffee, driving, or finishing a meal, etc. (Part B) . . .
then you can break the addiction to cigarettes without requiring willpower, and
without having to suffer from withdrawal symptoms or weight-gain.
Self-hypnosis will make
it easy to break the addiction to cigarettes because it takes care of Parts A
& B! Here is how:
Part A is where smokers light-up a
cigarette for relaxation and pleasure. It’s your thoughts that create feelings
of stress. More specifically, people persistently run mental movies in their
minds. If the movie is negative, it brings about a feeling of anxiety.
We can use various
hypnosis and NLP techniques to re-program the subconscious mind to
instantly and automatically take those anxiety producing mental movies, and
automatically exchange them for relaxation producing mental pictures and movies.
This instills relaxation and pleasure, and obliterates the tension that
triggers the oral cravings and compulsions for cigarettes.
Because
of the elimination of
feelings of tension the smoker who is quitting doesn’t experience the
compulsion or need to substitute food in place of the cigarettes. So quitting
without weight gain is possible.
Part B is where people smoke a cigarette
because smoking becomes a conditioned response to many different activities and
locations. Remember in the earlier example how smoking became unconsciously
associated with other activities and environments so that each time a smoker
gets into that activity or environment, the mind to flashes an image of a
cigarette, and the image of the cigarette triggers an urge to smoke?
There are quit
smoking hypnosis, and stop smoking NLP techniques that can effectively
extinguish those conditioned responses so that a smoker’s mind will lose the
cravings for cigarettes, and the compulsion to smoke. As a matter of fact, you
can even get a compulsion to reject the cigarettes.

© 2007 By Alan B. Densky, CH. This article may
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NLP in 1978. He has worked face-to-face with over ten-thousand clients for appetite,
weight loss, smoke cessation, and stress related symptoms. He
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