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As women, we often find that the man is a true mystery. The men that we would think would be obviously interested in us don't show it and the men that we would never want to be associated with are very obvious about their interest. How can you make the man you want, want you? You should remember that while you can make just about any man want you, you need to have a bit of respect for yourself and not pursue those men who have made it obvious they aren't interested. Why would you want a man who doesn't want you? Once you have accepted that you need to go after a man that just has noticed you, you will find that it is quite simple to make a man want you. When you understand a man you will understand how to make any man that you want, want you. In fact, you can break getting the guy you want down into three simple steps. The first is to make an attempt to be around him. You can be subtle, such as asking him to go to lunch with you, to attend a working lunch together, or to stop by to pick something up. Men are not stupid and they will see that you are attempting to spend time with them and get closer. Men would never admit it out loud, but they need a lot of validation and you can give them that by showing in a very subtle way that you want to spend time around them. Next you need to make sure that you have your own boundaries and that you respect yourself. There is nothing more unattractive to a man than a woman who does not have her own goals and level of respect for herself. If he sees that you are willing to do anything to get with him he will be turned off, if he sees that you would like to spend time with him but not at the risk of giving up who you are, he will respect that and he will want you more. Most men cannot even put this into words, but it is true! Most men like a woman who is confident in who she is and can still make time for a man, so do this! Talk to him, but allow for him to seek you out more than you seek him out. A man likes a woman who will talk to him and listen to him talk, but when you are always the one seeking him out he will feel like you are over bearing and perhaps even a bit of a stalker. If you let him know you are interested and you leave it at that, he'll come to you and seek you out. Talk to him like you are interested, like you care what he has to say, and you'll find that he cannot get enough of you.
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Rodrigo Rehn is a Relationships Expert, Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance Dating for singles.
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